Understanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works

Many guys are confused about what to do to make a girl like them, because they assume that girls feel attracted to guys for the same reasons that guys feel attracted to girls.Understanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works

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In other words, guys think that it’s all about looks.

While it is true that a girl can feel attracted to a guy’s looks, the majority of girls feel much more attraction to other things about guys (e.g. confidence, charisma, emotional masculinity, charm, humor, etc).

Yet, for most guys, the attraction they feel for girls is INSTANT and it doesn’t even matter if the girl isn’t very intelligent, interesting or even a very nice person.

Most guys will still be willing to have sex with her (and possibly even date her) solely based on how she looks.Understanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works

For this reason, a lot of guys make the assumption that most girls make a decision about who to have sex with and be in a relationship with based on physical appearance.

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Yet, for most women (not all), a man’s personality traits (e.g. his confidence, charm, masculinity, sense of humor) carry much more weight than looks when she is deciding if she wants to have sex with him or date him.

For example: A guy might really like a girl and really want to hook up with her, but since he comes across in a nervous, insecure and self-doubting way when he interacts with her, she rejects him because she feels turned off by his insecurities.

Rather than realize that it is his lack of confidence that is turning her off, he will usually just assume that he is being rejected because he isn’t good looking enough, rich enough or tall enough.

Looks Are Only Important to Some Girls

Some girls place a lot of importance on how a guy looks, but the majority of girls are much more open and flexible when it comes to what they will accept about a guy’s appearance.

This is why you will always see so many ordinary, plain and even ugly guys with a beautiful girlfriend or wife.How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works

How did they get their girl to like them?

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Simple: He made her feel attracted to him for reasons other than his looks (e.g. confidence, humor, charisma, charm, masculine vibe, etc).

Here’s the really interesting thing though…

If a guy isn’t very good looking and even has some negative features (e.g. a big nose, eyes too close together, too short, chubby, skinny), these odd features will actually become attractive and appealing to a girl when she is feeling a lot of attraction for him.

Rather than look at his flaw as a bad thing, she begins to see it as a cute thing that only her guy has.

She will say, “I like that he’s chubby…it makes him cuddly” or I don’t care that he is short, because he is confident and he makes me feel proud to be with him.”

Understanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really WorksUnderstanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works


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